It was a momentous
occasion in Jackson Saturday night for Mildred
Stapleton O'Brian Shegog.
The 82-year-old Oxford
senior citizen walked off with the Ms. Senior
Mississippi crown, the eighth winner from
Yoknapatawpha County in the pageant's 30-year
history.
The Ms. Senior
Mississippi pageant is held every year to celebrate
"the vigor and beauty of our state's greatest
natural resource, the elderly."
This is the second year
Shegog has entered the pageant. Escorted by an
entourage from the Van Buren Book Club, Shegog
traveled to Jackson with plenty of friendly
support.
"Most of my family has passed," Shegog
explained. "I have a son and a daughter, three
granddaughters and a grandson, but they live so far
away. My friends here in Oxford are good family to
me."
Shegog moved to Oxford 15
years ago after the death of her husband, Walter
O'Brian.
"We used to visit Oxford when we were
young, and we absolutely loved it," Shegog said. "My relatives lived here as well, so
there's always been a sense of home for me in
Oxford."
Despite her lack of
family nearby, Shegog has kept busy with various
activities such as gardening, reading, sewing,
cooking and volunteering at the public library. She
also enjoys bicycling and walking at the Oxford
Mall, where she has organized a club called the
Golden-Heeled Mall Walkers.
"Instead of feeling
lonely and sorry for myself, I decided to get out
there and take hold of what life continues to offer
me," Shegog said. "I feel almost as good as I did
in the days when my husband and I used to travel
the globe excavating archaeology sites."
The judges at the Ms.
Senior Mississippi pageant were no doubt impressed
by Shegog's active social life and go-get-em
spirit.
"Mildred was easily the
prettiest woman on stage that night," said Marjorie
Nelson, a friend and supporter who made the trip to
Jackson. "She had on the loveliest blue satin dress
with white shoes and a heart-shaped ruby necklace
that glistened like her eyes. I tell you, we all
live for this kind of joy!"
Shegog said she received
a phone call from Senator Thad Cochran, who
congratulated her on her win.
"He's a sweet man," Shegog recalled. "To think, a busy fellow like that
taking time out to call me. Life is just getting
better every day."